If you need to be irresistible all you have to do is to be true to your own true character, and express that character in living. But how do you do that? How do you access the gold of love and truth that is buried deep in every one of us? And what is it anyway, this authentic character that is our true wealth and
the greatest gift, really, that we have to give to our world?
1. Learn from nature.If you want to be irresistible, what better place to start than studying nature? Nature doesn’t seem to find it hard to be irresistible. Whether nature is being a daffodil, a tree, a hurricane,
or the roar in a lion’s throat, it simply IS
irresistible. One of the things I love most about nature is its patience. Its patient for a major change and react to it calmly.
2. Be still.
“Silence is the cornerstone of true character.” We live in a culture that is very oriented to doing and achieving. But if we want to deepen our
connection with our own being, with our own true character, we must take some time every now and again to simply be still.
The interesting thing is that sometimes, a few moments consciously “not doing” can actually increase our creativity and productivity no end.
It can also help us in connecting more deeply with our own inner wisdom.
“Silence is the cornerstone of true character.” We live in a culture that is very oriented to doing and achieving. But if we want to deepen our
connection with our own being, with our own true character, we must take some time every now and again to simply be still.
The interesting thing is that sometimes, a few moments consciously “not doing” can actually increase our creativity and productivity no end.
It can also help us in connecting more deeply with our own inner wisdom.
3. Be persistent
Do it over and over again even if you keeps failing.
Do it over and over again even if you keeps failing.
4. Value little moments as much as big ones.
When we are expressing true character we appreciate the little moments of life and care for them to the best of our ability just as much as we honor the “big” moments.
When we are expressing true character we appreciate the little moments of life and care for them to the best of our ability just as much as we honor the “big” moments.
5. Love balance.
We live in a loving universe that relies on
balance as true character we too must love balance and seek balance at all times. life demands action and creativity too.
We live in a loving universe that relies on
balance as true character we too must love balance and seek balance at all times. life demands action and creativity too.
6. Be interested in other people.
If you really want to be irresistible,
be genuinely interested in what someone else is interested in. If you can find out what makes
If you really want to be irresistible,
be genuinely interested in what someone else is interested in. If you can find out what makes
someone excited or happy – their eyes will glow and friendship will flow.
7. Be kind.
Be kind to yourself and others.
Sometimes, caught up in some important task, we put undue pressure on ourselves or another. It’s important to be kind and gracious to everything and everyone we meet. It is not weak to be kind. It is a mark of true character — it reveals the love at the core of our being.
Be kind to yourself and others.
Sometimes, caught up in some important task, we put undue pressure on ourselves or another. It’s important to be kind and gracious to everything and everyone we meet. It is not weak to be kind. It is a mark of true character — it reveals the love at the core of our being.
8. Be You
The greatest lure for all time is genuineness. Every world pull--perceptible or not-- is drawn to the genuine. Being genuine is being you. As soon as you jump off the bandwagon and carve you own path, you will find how irresistible you are becoming. Suddenly, you are in the spotlight!
Truly, you too carry some gem to lead the world.
So stop to stop following, get into being you.
Get irresistible.
